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Just started reading your Quodoushka book

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Subject: Re: just started reading your Quodoushka book
On Jan 9, 2013, at 10:07 PM, Jim Slavsky wrote:

Amara,

I just started the read, and I am already thankful.  I too was pretty much left in limbo regarding sexual relations when I was growing up.  I got the Catholic doctrine on the matter:  don’t do it…you’ll get someone pregnant…it’s a sin to even think about it…oh, and it is also a sin to explore your own body through masturbation.  No one was there to guide me through the emotional or physical reactions as I experimented on my own and occasionally with a partner.  Emotional and physical sexual development for me was done in the dark with the twisted notion that your sex partner had to be someone you intended to marry.  Some sort of mentoring process would have been very beneficial.  Actually, I am sure it would still be beneficial since I feel as though I have just barely scratched the surface of my sexual potential.  I guess that is why I searched and found Quodoushka.

The first chapter of your book also made me keenly aware of the source of the feelings I have started having of being an insufficient parent for my young teenage children.  I would really like to give my kids some guidance other than the rhetoric and limbo I was given at that age, but I haven’t known how to even begin.  At the same time I am also realizing from your text that I have already started my children on a solid path through my introducing them to nature and showing them the value of being observant and a good steward.

I am looking forward to learning much more about my sexual and parental potentials.

Thank you,
–jim

Hi Jim,
Thank you very much for sharing this with me.
What you say is so touching, and well written and I think a lot of people would relate to what you are saying.
I meet so may people who like you who not only survive a poor introduction to their sexuality,
they manage to do much better with their own children.
Bravo on you! Our children need parents who accept their sexuality as natural and good. It all begins with us.

In beauty
Amara

What’s Wrong with Sex Ed From Porn?

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Are Teens getting Sex Ed From Porn?

What’s wrong with this picture?

How long will mainstream jab at the false issues surrounding Sex Ed for Teens? They do get one thing right though, there’s a ton of porn online, and of course teens are going to watch it! Mainstream gets another thing right too; that parents, schools and religious organizations are incapable of providing meaningful sex education because they either can’t or won’t talk about sex in the way teens need to hear it. More …

What’s Wrong with Sex Ed From Porn?

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Are Teens getting Sex Ed From Porn?

What’s wrong with this picture?

How long will mainstream jab at the false issues surrounding Sex Ed for Teens? They do get one thing right though, there’s a ton of porn online, and of course teens are going to watch it! Mainstream gets another thing right too; that parents, schools and religious organizations are incapable of providing meaningful sex education because they either can’t or won’t talk about sex in the way teens need to hear it. More …

Hilarious Birds and Bee’s –And Then Some

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I’m joining a panel on Teen Sex Ed at the Sedona Conference in April. It should be a frisky conversation, with Reid Mihalko, Laurie Handlers, Leela Sullivan and other guests.

So, when I came across this video on the Birds and Bees, just had to watch. Julia Sweeney’s sex talk with her daughter is utterly hilarious. I love the way her daughter Mula reasons her way through the most natural questions in the world. She just cant help the insatiable curiosity of her 8 year old mind, and thankfully, her Mom stays in the saddle, holds on and does the best she can!

It’s wonderful to see Julia squirm,teetering between ‘way too much information’, and figuring out to get through her daughters questions. Watch this video to see a great way to handle the spontaneous, irrepressible need to know questions about sex. I love it because it’s not perfect, prescribed or planned-

Gotta Watch

Amara Charles’ book The Sexual Practices of Quodoushka
is available on Amazon.

Want To Attract Men?

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Last year we started a conversation about men, but truly, I was just getting started… So here’s a few thoughts about these unusual creatures to usher in another year of living the good life.

Arghhhh, Men. You have to love them though, I certainly do. Despite their tendency to drive you utterly crazy with the strange things they do, it’s good to remember their needs are fairly simple. While it’s probably no surprise that men need affection and support on a regular basis :-) More …

THE HEALING POWER OF QUODOUSHKA

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Quodoushka (pronounced: Kwa-dosh-kah) with Amara Charles

Whether frequently enjoyed or often avoided, sex is undeniably the most powerful energy of existence. According to the shamanic teachings of Quodoushka, originating from the Twisted Hairs tradition of Turtle Island (including ancient cultures from North, South and Central, Americas, as well as the lands now known as Australia and New Zealand), sexual energy is the original, boundless life-force that everything in existence is created through and from. More …