How this page “My Dalliances” Came About…

After sharing about spiritual sexuality with so many men and women over the years, I have heard some amazing stories! I’ve always wanted to share some of these uplifting erotic tales to inspire others to have more empowered, endearing and meaningful sexual experiences.

So about a year ago, I asked several friends to send me their never-been-told-before stories of a special erotic memory. I asked that the messages be positive, uplifting and that the story convey something about their innermost desires and fantasies. When the stories came rolling in, they started something wonderful. I promised I would someday share them to inspire people to make love in unusual, beautiful and sometimes daring ways. Community members will soon be invited to share their erotic ‘dalliances’, so stay tuned.

Here’s just one of the amazing stories I have received…

A Daring Sexy Way to Celebrate Your Love

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Bailey Masks VideoWatch this wonderful erotic story about an adventure Lynn and her husband Mark created. It’s a fantastic idea for any couple who would like to celebrate their intimacy in a most daring and risque way…

 

THROUGH THE EYES OF THE LOVERS

What follows is our story of how we came to have David Steinberg take nine rolls of film of us while making love. It explains our motivation, our fears, but most of all how David was able to get us to a point of total comfort before, during and after the shoot. The results were absolutely fantastic in projecting the tenderness, love, joy, silliness, fun and total ecstasy that we felt while making love for the photo session.

We are a couple who took a giant leap from having had “boudoir” pictures taken, to having an almost 2 hour photo shoot during a most intimate love making session. Our boudoir session involved full nudity, but only holding and caressing for the pictures; we are both comfortable with nudity, having sex in unusual places and taking pictures and movies of ourselves. We were initially nervous with the  pictures being taken by others, but relaxed gradually as the session proceeded—most “poses” were directed by the photographer (David was not the photographer).  There were enough shots that projected eroticism and our expanding erotic nature that we had five collages made suitable for matting and framing. The pictures (proofs & collages) combined with having seen several “erotic” pictures of other couples taken by David suggested to us that we should try to express our intimacy in pictures while making love. Though we were nervous and almost reluctant to attempt it when we first discussed it, we were very comfortable, at ease and felt natural during our shoot. The difference in our comfort level was initially reading David’s article “Real Sex In Front Of the Camera”, but the most benefit and impact came from our pre shoot discussions with David.

From the first time we spoke with David by phone until he snapped the first picture, he emphasized that he had NO agenda and that his role was to capture what we projected. He would not direct, position or critique us. We felt we could see that concept in the various sets of pictures of other couples we had seen.  We did not want pictures to put on an amateur porn site, or pictures to shock or titillate others. We wanted pictures to reflect our feeling for, and closeness with, each other during our love making. The same feelings and emotions that during our regular love making has made us shriek, laugh, gasp, groan or cry depending on some variable yet to be identified.  We wanted on film how we felt more than how we looked.

One suggestion that David made well beforehand that served us well, was not to over think or over complicate what we included while making love for the camera. We have many techniques, toys, positions and bondage equipment that are frequently included in our love making; we initially thought of including as many as possible. With David’s “hints”, we concluded that we did not want to illustrate a “How To Book”, we wanted to capture emotion and feelings.  We picked a couple lubes, a couple toys and decided we’ll start at foreplay and see where it goes.

It worked perfectly because we were more relaxed and in our own element and timing by us NOT having an agenda other than to enjoy.

That is not to say that in the future we won’t do a shoot with more toys, a couple specific positions or featuring bondage, but for that shoot those were not our intent. Anyone wishing to feature those things, fetish play or even a solo shoot of self-pleasuring, can certainly do it and I have no doubt that David can capture your intent; in a very erotic and sensual manner.

David also helped us put together an album (coffee table book) of 65 of our favorite pictures along with dedications to each other. Every time we look at the album, or share it with friends who understand our intent, the eroticism seems new and fresh. Obviously we have only shared it with others who are comfortable in nudity and who are comfortable in discussing our and their own erotic nature.  All who have viewed it have commented about how erotic, natural, loving and happy we are. We will also share it with others thinking of being photographed by David, or others serious about learning David’s art.

                                                          Lynn and Mark

SENSUAL AND SEXY

I long ago gave to you my heart which you touched so deeply, my heart you cause to swell with pride and my heart that you humbled by picking (and keeping) me. I remind you of our symbolic hearts that reflect, but do not fully capture, your passion, your openness, your Erotic Nature and your genuineness.

In this book of images recall the trust, the openness, the silliness, the daring, the seeking of new and unknown, the passion, the tenderness, the lust, the love and the pure enjoyment that has been our relationship and lives together. Recall in the images not just the nakedness of our bodies, but the openness to our souls we provided each other. Recall our adventures, our joys, our happiness, our soft murmurs, our shouts, our tenderness and our toughness, but most of all our freedom to be ourselves with each other. Recall how we also became each other without losing ourselves.

Forever and Always to my One and Only.

To My Husband, Lover and Friend,

You make me feel beautiful and these pictures capture that feeling and the essence of us.  You see beyond the bumps, lumps and wrinkles…and I am loved in ways words cannot express.  The making of this album was scary, fun, exciting, and erotic ~ and you gave me the freedom to do so at my pace.  As I’ve said before, we’re at a place of deep trust and knowledge of each other.  We can talk without many words, laugh at ourselves, and continue to grow and explore new things together ~ and this album is testament to the explorer in us.

And here, in this special place, the magic and tingly feelings still happen and the spaces in my life are filled, for you are, simply everything to me.

Thank you for the many smiles and happy memories these pictures will bring in the years to come and remind us of the feelings creating this album evoked.

Forever and Always,

Hilarious, Sexy Interview with Crickette & Amara Charles

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What a hoot!   I was as just on Chatterbox radio for a hilarious interview. I’m on about 20 minutes into the show….  Have a listen. Crickette is a riot.

Crickette Radio Show

 

A Tantric Pleasure Story

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an Erotic Story by PeneDuro

“Hello!” This was his no nonsense business tone of voice.  “Hello Darling” Her voice was low and sultry.  “Well, I wasn’t expecting to hear from you this afternoon.  Did I ever tell you that you sound very sexy on the phone?”  “About a hundred times, but I never get tired of hearing it” Her voice trailed off as she whispered,  I called to see what time you’ll be home.”  “With Friday night traffic, I imagine about 6 p.m. Why?”

“I have a very special evening planned and I wanted to have everything prepared when you arrived home.” She practically purred into the phone and he felt his cock begin to swell and harden.

“Are you still at work?”

“Nope, I’m at home getting everything ready, “ she said slyly. “You have me intrigued.  What do you have planned?” He really was curious for he never knew what new fantasy she might dream up. Where did she get this stuff? He asked himself.  He knew that his imagination and libido was in overdrive, but he had finally met his match and OMG! Was it ever fun!

“Now if I told you, she said, then it wouldn’t be a surprise, would it?” “Well, I guess not, but you mean that I have to sit here for the next three hours and try to figure out what you are up to? Just talking to you has given me a raging hard on and it is getting damn uncomfortable!”  “Poor baby, I promise to take good care of you when you get home. I can’t wait to get your cock in my mouth.  Everything will be ready by six. See you soon!” And with that he heard the phone click on the other end of the line before he could pry a clue from her.

Damn how am I going to get through the rest of the afternoon knowing she has cooked up an another wild fantasy for my pleasure.

He shifted in the chair to relieve the pressure on his hardened cock and tried to get back to work.

“ I’m home!” he called out as he came in the front door and dropped his keys and briefcase on the hallway table. The house smelled incredible!  He smelled exotic spices, sandlewood incense and her perfume Shalimar. That’s all she ever wore and she always smelled good enough to eat, which he did with great regularity.  He chuckled to himself as she came down the hall.  “ what’s so funny?” She stood up on tiptoes to kiss him.  She was wearing something that looked like a sari, sheer red silk with an applied gold pattern.  She wore it without the customary fitted garment he had seen before worn under saris.

“What’s with the sari? And isn’t part of it missing?”  Not that I am complaining. You know that the fewer clothes you have on when you meet me at the door, the better it is.  “This is the abbreviated version of the sari. Are you ready for a great adventure tonight?”  Before he could answer she took him by the hand and led him down the hall toward their bedroom.  He could hear exotic music playing softly in the bedroom, perhaps it was Persian classical. When she got to the bedroom door it was closed.

“OK, you can’t see the bedroom until after I have bathed you.  So I am just going to put this little blindfold on until we get into the bathroom.”  With that she put the black silk blindfold on him and opened the bedroom door.  More …

Tantric Afternoon

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“Hello!” This was his no nonsense business tone of voice.  “Hello Darling” Her voice was low and sultry.  “Well, I wasn’t expecting to hear from you this afternoon.  Did I ever tell you that you sound very sexy on the phone?”  “About a hundred times, but I never get tired of hearing it” Her voice trailed off as she whispered,  I called to see what time you’ll be home.”  “With Friday night traffic, I imagine about 6 p.m. Why?”

“I have a very special evening planned and I wanted to have everything prepared when you arrived home.” She practically purred into the phone and he felt his cock begin to swell and harden.

“Are you still at work?”

“Nope, I’m at home getting everything ready, “ she said slyly. “You really have me intrigued.  What do you have planned?” He really was curious for he never knew what new what fantasy she might dream up. Where did she get this stuff? He asked himself.  He knew that his imagination and libido was in overdrive, but he had finally met his match and OMG! Was it ever fun!

“Now if I told you;, she said, “then it wouldn’t be a surprise, would it?” “Well, I guess not, but you mean that I have to sit here for the next three hours and try to figure out what you are up to? Just talking to you has given me a raging hardon and it is getting damn uncomfortable!”  “Poor baby, I promise to take good care of you when you get home. I can’t wait to get your cock in my mouth.  Everything will be ready by six. See you soon!” And with that he heard the phone click on the other end of the line before he could pry a clue from her.

Damn how am I going to get through the rest of the afternoon knowing she has cooked up an another wild fantasy?

Planning to bring it to life for his pleasure, he shifted in the chair to relieve the pressure on his hardened cock and tried to get back to work.

“ I’m home!” he called out as he came in the front door and dropped his keys and briefcase on the hallway table. The house smelled incredible!  He smelled exotic spices, sandlewood incense and her perfume Shalimar. That’s all she ever wore and she always smelled good enough to eat, which he did with great regularity.  He chuckled to himself as she came down the hall.  “ what’s so funny?” She stood up on tiptoes to kiss him.  She was wearing something that looked like a sari, sheer red silk with an applied gold pattern.  She wore without the customary fitted garment he had seen before worn under saris.

“What’s with the sari?” And isn’t part of it missing?  Not that I am complaining. You know that the fewer clothes you have on when you meet me at the door, the better it is.  “This is the abbreviated version of the sari. Are you ready for a great adventure tonight?”  Before he could answer she took him by the hand and led him down the hall toward their bedroom.  He could hear exotic music playing softly in the bedroom, perhaps it was Persian classical. When she got to the bedroom door it was closed.

“OK, you can’t see the bedroom until after I have bathed you.  So I am just going to put this little blindfold on until we get into the bathroom.”  With that she put the black silk blindfold on him and opened the bedroom door.  All of the scents of the room assaulted his nostrils as she led him through the room and then shut the bathroom door once they were inside.  She pulled the blindfold off as he blinked his eyes to get them into focus again.  The big whirlpool tub was full of bubbles and the air was scented from bath oils and the numerous candles burning in the room.  She didn’t say a word, she just started to undress him slowly.  As she did,every inch of flesh that was uncovered was kissed and licked.  Finally, he stood the there completely naked with his thick cock standing at attention.  She could not resist the temptation and for just a moment knelt in front of him and with her saliva covered tongue vigorously sucked the head of his cock.  She was really hungry to have her mouth completely filled with cock and feel his warm come flow down her throat but she knew she would have to wait.

“Go ahead and get in.  I’m going to bathe you and get you all relaxed from the commute.”  She stepped away so he could step into the tub.  She hit a button and set the whirlpool to the lowest speed.  “OMG, this feels good,” he moaned as he sank down into the hot scented water.  So, what comes next he thought, I can barely wait.  “Shhh, no talking. Just lie back in the tub and let me do the rest.”  She picked up a washcloth and soaped it up with a scented soap.  She slowly washed his shoulders and neck. She worked her way down his chest and she let the nubby side of the cloth drag over his erect nipples.  He sighed as she continued to stroke him very gently.  When she was finished she told him told to lean forward and she repeated the process on his back.  When she was finished she stood.

“Pull the plug and stand so I can dry you off.”  He stood and as the tub drained she grabbed a towel and began to gently dry him when he got out of the tub.  Starting at his face and continuing down his body her sure hands caressed every drop of water away.  She then wrapped him in a length of silk, similar to hers except that it was dark blue.  He had to admit that it felt great against his skin.

“Are you ready for the next step?” She asked.  “My curiosity is killing me. What now?”  “Now we go into the bedroom.  I’ve prepared a small sensual repast for us to give us strength for the night’s activities.”

As they stepped into the bedroom he was dumbfounded. All of the furniture was draped in jeweled, toned fabric.  The floor was covered with a thick pad and there were big pillows everywhere with the largest group leaning against the bed forming a backrest.  It all formed a wonderful little nest in the middle of the bedroom floor. In the middle of the pad on the floor was a large round tray. It was covered with little bits of spiced meat, hot pickled vegetables, dates, fruit and other morsels.  Everything was bite sized and it smelled wonderful in the combination with the incense, the candles and her perfume.  Silently, she motioned for him to sit closest to the bed and to recline on the pillows there.  She sat cross legged in front of him.  The music was hypnotic and very sensual consisting only of drums and a flute of some kind.

She still didn’t say a word and started to feed him small morsels of meats  spiced with curry and others tasting like cardamom and saffron.  Each bite was more exotic than the last.  Bites of pickled asparagus and fresh tomato were followed by the sweetness of a grape or two.  This  went on for a few minutes and each new taste made his senses more aware.  It was remarkable that just a few bites of food could be this sexy.  He loved how her fingers felt against his lips as she fed him.  The last morsel was a date.  The last morsel was a date.  The sweet richness was the perfect finish.

“You remember how I once told you that I make love with all my senses?”  He nodded. She was remembering one of the emails they had shared before they had even met.  “Tonight is going to be the ultimate sensory experience. “Did you like the food?” “ It was wonderful, every bite charged and overloaded my taste buds.  Combined with the music, the smells and the touch of your fingertips on my lips really got me going.”  “Tonight isn’t about goals. Tonight is all about the senses.”  “ Do you know what a lingam is?” He shook his head and so she just went on. “That is Sanskrit for your cock. It literally translates to “Wand of Light” and yours is going to get a special Tantric massage tonight. So let me slide this pillow under your butt and then lean back.  Try not to close your eyes and just watch me and float on the pleasure.  Don’t think of orgasm, just absorb all the input your senses are getting.”  He leaned back and she nudged his legs apart, spreading them very wide.   The pillow under his butt lifted his pelvis just enough for her to have access to him.  She reached over and poured a few drops of a scented oil into her palm.  His eyes were glued to her movements and she met his gaze as she gently started to apply the oil to his cock and balls.  Her touch was like a whisper as her hands glided over him.  The oil made her movements silky and sensuous.

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You Tube bans My Video Poem, Beautiful Breasts

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You Tube pulled my video poem, and suspended my account. (my account has been reinstated)

There is nothing pornographic about this video. It is dedicated intended to educate and empower women. Yes, it astonishes me that showing a man being shoved in front of a train is okay to view, but a beautiful portrayal of women’s breasts on video is fine. (sculptures are okay).

What do you think?

ONLY AVAILABLE HERE:

Beautiful Breasts from Amara Charles on Vimeo.

Beautiful Breasts from Amara Charles on Vimeo.

Amara Charles presents a video poem inspiring women to love their beautiful breasts.

Amara Charles presents a video poem inspiring women to love their beautiful breasts. An inspirational video, this is the introduction to her new release of the Yin Way Breast Exercises for sexual restoration. By practicing this self love, self massage exercise, women can love them selves and love their breasts. The full exercise is available @ www.amaracharles.com

The full YIN WAY BREAST EXERCISE, follow along self massage practice filmed in Kauai, is now available in my shop.

YOU CAN STILL SEE BEAUTIFUL BREASTS.

Yin Way Breast Exercise

Yin Way Breast Exercise. Now available.

Stroking the Comfort Zone

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Our Evening of Passion and Fantasy

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Last summer, my wife Marie and I attended the first ever Discover Your Erotic Nature (D Y E N) Intimacy Retreat presented by Amara Charles. Based in Taoist sexual practices, we thought it was about stretching our erotic comfort zone.

Reflecting back on my experience (since we were pretty sexually/erotically/nudity open already), while the D Y E N retreat didn’t exactly stretch our comfort zone, there was a lot we learned and found interesting which we decided to include in our lives.

We have set up romantic/fantasy lovemaking scenarios as a surprise for each other in the past, so it was easy for me to turn one of the things we did at the retreat into an evening of great passion.

The DYEN exercise that kept flashing in my mind was the one where you pose your partner in a position to duplicate the pose of a Goddess on cards that had been randomly drawn. The pose I was to place Marie in was of a naked Goddess lying prone with arms above her head and crossed at the wrist, her head to the side and one leg slightly bend in a provocative manner. Once I felt I had the pose duplicated, I was to call all the other participants to view my ‘sculpture’ of Marie in the pose. All agreed that Marie was even more stunning than the the Goddess in the picture; including her freshly shorn pussy (which duplicated that of the Goddess on our card.)

The memory of that evening’s activity (held outdoors on the dimly lit lawn of the retreat location in rural AZ) is what motivated me to create one particular surprise of love and fantasy.

I Planned this Carefully for Marie More …

Anton and the Wanton Lusty Lover

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I separated from my husband in 2005 after 10 years of marriage.   My experience in sexuality was very limited and in fact I still approached sexual encounters like a 17 year old.   The world of men was daunting and yet I had a strong desire to discover myself as a sexual being.   I was fortunate enough to attend a Quodoshka course a few months after the separation.     Part of the course was to experience different “lovers masks” through dressing up in various clothes.  An example of a lovers mask would be “shy/curious” or “the Goddess” or “the lusty woman”.    I loved this aspect of the course because I have a passion for clothes and the way I feel in them so naturally I was keen to play with clothes again when I returned home.

Not long after the course I met a wonderful man who lived in a nearby town called Anton.    He had had a number of short term relationships and was very confident with women.  He greatly enjoyed me exploring my sexuality and embraced any play with me that I wanted to undertake.

It was a Friday and Anton was coming to town to see me.   I woke in that morning anticipating our love making and feeling totally delicious.   Then I got the idea to play a lovers mask with him.    I wanted to be the wanton lusty woman so I decided to wear a a green dress like I have never worn before in my life.

I couldn’t believe what happened.

Anton:  “Is there something you would like to do tonight?”

Me:   “ms. Gorgeous desires to be taken out”

Anton:  “Oh that sounds good”

Me:  “Dress is very classy and requires the appropriate place with fine wine”

Anton:  “That can be arranged”

Me:  “I’ll be ready for you with just the dress and shoes on”

Anton:  “Just the dress – nothing else?”

Me:  “Wait and see”…

We were both running on hot now and the day seemed to take forever to pass by.   I was filled with the feeling of both arousal and anxiety as I had never gone out without underwear before.   What made it feel safe was that it was made of thick material and although it flattered my figure it was not so tight that one would know what was underneath.

I dressed for the evening and Anton picked me up.   It was such a rush to see him.  Walking around town I was terrified that I would fall over and expose myself.  However that did not happen.   We wined and dined and chatted, me still feeling deliciously excited.  However something began to irk me.   Anton wasn’t paying quite his usual attention to me – something I expected bearing my attire.   If he was turned on usually he would give me a slightly different attention and I could not sense this happening.   My exuberance was slightly dampened.

When we got to his place he started paying attention to the dress and wanted to take it off.   As he did he was most surprised to find me naked underneath.   I was starting to feel upset; he had completely forgotten my text.  We did make love but I felt disappointed that I was the only one playing the game.  My expectation had taken the edge of being with him.  I had worn the dress for him and not for me.

A few months later I was visiting Anton for a summer holiday.  We had had a lazy day and he said he had to do a little bit of work.   I had brought a sexy black negligee with me and decided to have some fun.  It was a warm afternoon and I knew that Anton likes to make love at that time of day.   I laid a rug down on the floor of his lounge, chilled wine and made some food to eat.   As I was doing this I could just feel the excitement building in my body.   I had a shower, applied perfume to my body and dressed in a g-string and negligee.    This was a completely new experience for me,  had never even owned a negligee before.   Eventually he came back up to the house and he caught a glimse of me.   Red with shyness I suggested he go have a shower and come into the lounge.    He soon appeared in the lounge and saw how I had set everything up.  “Oh a playpen” he said clapping his hands with delight.  This totally thrilled me as he embraced the idea of an afternoon of pleasure.   Pouring him a wine I proceeded to lay down a couple of feet away from him.   Just far enough away where he could see my body through the clothing but not touch it.   Tantilising him, leaning forward so he could see part of my breasts from time to time.   His looking at me was incredibly exciting, I knew he just wanted to rip my flimsy clothing off.   Every now and then I’d move towards him and sit on his lap pressing into his groin, kissing him passionately, and then I’d move away again.   The temperature was rising.  In the end he took my foot and placed it in his groin, saying how exciting this was for him.   This teasing when on for quite a time, between glassing of wine, food, laughing and joking.  I loved looking at him and experiencing his desire for me. I felt full of powerful hot energy.  Gradually the passionate kisses grew longer and clothes started coming off.   He caressed my body and I was tingling with delight and aching for more.  All of a sudden we were full on love making on his floor.  What a delightful afternoon it was.

My Secret Santa

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One of my most memorable Christmas’s was when my lover decided to fulfill one of my sexual fantasies to be with two men in an evening of sensual delight and adult sexual play. He made all the arrangements with someone he knew I would like – tall, lean and Italian, and told me where and when to show up. Let’s call my secret Santa, Sergio. More …

The Ultimate Cure for E D :-)

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Perhaps you have you’ve seen the commercial with a smiling guy wearing a light blue knit sweater talking to his nice looking friend about his ED problem. If you are like me and rarely catch this stuff, you probably had to say, “ED?” And then you figured: “Oh… Erectile Dysfunction.” By the time it registers into the brain that these two totally average guys are calmly chatting about their inability to get hard, the commercial is onto doctor’s recommendations, side effects and all that. More …

The Sacred Slut Show by Kamala Devi

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The Sacred Slut Show July 8 & 9  in San Diego at the Moxie Theater

Screw social taboos, question legal limits and defy religious assumptions. I go beyond sharing my personal sexual healing, and deliver you into the arms, onto the massage tables and bedrooms of my sacred sex mentors. I tell the story of 5 outrageous women who share turning points from their lives. Come learn about Veronica Monet, Amara Charles, Mare Simone, Tracy Elise and Annie Sprinkle. Past and present prostitutes, Tantra Teachers, Sex Surrogates, Mother Priestesses, and Porn Stars.
I use oral tradition and temple arts to transmit their powerful teachings, and the show culminates in a sacred self pleasuring ritual.  I’m doing a truly transformative tribute to sexy performance art legend, Annie Sprinkle.

http://sacredslutshow.eventbrite.com/

This is a MUST SEE!!!

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