What’s So Sexy About Dirty Talk?
Even though I don’t really think dirty talk is ‘dirty’ at all, I must admit I like both giving and getting it. I like the prelude, the spoken and unspoken words, the whole courtship of erotic conversation. It’s fascinating how changing just a few words, and the tone of your voice can turn luke warm ho hum sex into peel me off the moon kind of sex.
Which of these words would melt you to the ground? While the Vanilla lines may work just fine, try the Hot ones once in a while to put some fire to your heart, and maybe a few other places too.*
Are You Vanilla or Hot? More …
How to Talk Less and Have More Sex
I think maybe we all want sex that makes us shiver and sweat all over, but we also want sex that makes us smile, and melt into each others bodies all night. Do we have to choose between hot sex or intimate sex? While some talking is needed to have either how sex or cozy sex, it’s good to know when to talk and when to stop.
Here’s one of my favorite ways to hit the sweet spot. More …
Ever Wonder Why She Sometimes Avoids Sensuous Touch?
I just watched Brene Brown’s Ted’s lecture on Vulnerability, Connection, Shame and Self Worth. First of all, she’s a lovely, humble speaker who has done some great research on what makes people shy away from intimate connection. Didn’t know you could get PHD’s on that kind of research… Her bottom line take on what makes people feel disconnected and alone? Feeling Unworthy.
After teaching spiritual sexuality workshops for over twenty years, I couldn’t agree more. And here’s what else I think. More …
Give her Pleasure Every Time
‘How can I become a better lover?‘ I’ve been asked this more than a few times by men: “Should I go faster, slower, deeper, longer? Can you suggest a book?”
Sometimes I think people will soon have GPS Sex systems in their bedrooms. With a voice saying, “okay a little to the right, a little deeper, now ease up, easy does it… You’re almost there…” Sounds like a great App, but really, do you want such advice? Perhaps you’d rather learn how to use your instincts to dip deeply into the Mysterious Female and to take your time savoring her beauty. More …
Breast Manna from Heaven
It seems you don’t even have to have to touch somebody for sex to be good for you.
In a recent study done by the New England School of Medicine lucky researchers got to conduct a test on the effect of looking at women’s breasts. In the study, a group of men were given a live view of a woman’s breasts for 10 minutes several times a day over the course of 10 months. More …
The Ultimate Cure for Erectile Disfunction :-)
Perhaps you have you’ve seen the commercial with a smiling guy wearing a light blue knit sweater talking to his nice looking friend about his ED problem. If you are like me and rarely catch this stuff, you probably had to say, “ED?” And then you figured: “Oh… Erectile Dysfunction.” By the time it registers into the brain that these two totally average guys are calmly chatting about their inability to get hard, the commercial is onto doctor’s recommendations, side effects and all that. More …
