inspirations for women
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I’ve been getting two kinds of comments from my last newsletter; tales of awful dates and stories from those who, while they first thought nothing spiritual could come of this, now bless the day internet dating was born. As promised, a friend who’s in the midst of this adventure, agreed to share the progression of her date ads.
If you’ve ever been curious about how to put your self out into cyberland in a good way, or you have some experience in the matter, we’d like to learn more. After reading these examples, I would love to know what you think makes a great ad or what turns you off? Would you respond to any of these, and if so, why? More …
Out there somewhere
there is a love who will never dream
of saying you’re too much…
Who speaks, like you,
in poetry and candle wax and stardust…
Who runs outside on stormy nights to howl at the moon…
Who collects bones, skulls, feathers and tattoos
and sings incantations and communes with ancestors…
And that lover,
when you find him or her,
will see you and know you,
just as you are and just as you should be…
And they will say
Yes. Yes, you!
I will go there with you…
anywhere you want
into any light filled crack
or dark lurking shadow you have never shown
By our guest poet Kalil
I have been waiting for this!
This series is dedicated to erotically intelligent women and men who are increasing their magnetic presence to attract higher levels of engagement.
Have you ever considered writing an online ad?
It can be a fascinating way to increase your magnetic presence to seek, find and deepen your beloved relationships. I know quite a few switched on seekers who have found some rather amazing people online and I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t. While online rules of engagement may change the way we meet, the laws of attraction remain. The question is, how can we refine our approach to seeking and finding a beloved, online or otherwise and turn it into a spiritual adventure? More …
I was told that in order to be a real woman
I had to be so many impossible
and sometimes contradictory things…
Even the brilliant (so-called)
abandoned my womanhood
in a barrage of criteria
about what it means to be a true woman,
and demands of men about how to be with us,
with aware, yet dissatisfied women…
And all the while
all I really wanted
was to exhale…
I was waiting to exhale…
I was told to pray for him to come,
Create my reality with him in it…
This paragon of ultimate manhood
that is expected to be more divine than God
and surpass perfection itself,
to fulfill impossibly long lists
of feminine wishes and demands
so we could know we had “made it”,
know we were no longer usurped
And all the while
I knew I didn’t have to search for him,
I knew he would find me,
and I would know myself in him
lying on his chest,
surrendered in his arms,
I would finally
Written by a friend of mine, Kalpi
Oh my Goddess Helen. You are so beautiful. You body flows on the wings of your heart. I cannot wait to see you at the November Quodoushka in Kauai.
Dance for me again and again, will you?
Crickette Gill of ChatterBox TV – she’s irreverent, she’s funny – and she’s a cat woman (very intelligent) We chat about Erotic Intelligence, jade eggs, what happens in Shakti Queen, vaginal restoration, jade stems, gazing at the dragon and how to give your pussy a PHD… (as if she doesn’t already have a master’s degree…)
I thought our last interview was good ~ this one’s great. Crickette is so funny and so easy to talk with! Her questions turn me on! We had such a blast in my backyard and having tea…I only wish we had camera rolling afterwards because that’s when the camera man gave his two cents, starting with something like, “well, I haven’t gotten too many complaints…”
Yes, I said laughing, still, if you’re really intelligent, you’ll keep asking me questions. (which he did). So I asked if he wanted to hear my shortest poem, The Mark of Intelligence, (which he did).
The Mark of Intelligence
is the way
you open your legs.
Don’t you think?
Amara Charles Interview with Max Van Prague – Opening Relationships
Because our needs and our desires are constantly changing, our sexual agreements must become living entities. It’s not about making contracts that confine you, It’s not about being, or expecting perfection from your partner.
Making conscious sexual agreements requires radical honesty, not only about what you want, agreements are about owning and taking responsibility for our mistakes.