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Recently while visiting my best friends around the globe, I found myself having virtually the same conversation with them all. Mostly we started with stories about magical meetings with gurus and psuedo gurus, shared tales of awesome workshops and remarkable self-growth adventures. We told each other of graceful or not so graceful relationships, marriages, divorces, children and everything in-between. In the end, every conversation gravitated towards the same idea: a craving for community. More …
from a Chinese Erotic Love Poem
The heart, the mind, the body. These are not separate things. Thus it is not possible to find a man without heart.But you will find many whose hearts are hidden.
The real ‘job’ of a woman (if we must have jobs) is to inspire men to feel their hearts.
When we resist sharing More …
Today, I decided to write a Love Poem to myself.
Some days, love is un-suppressible even when you try to stop it.
Others, it’s unattainable no matter where you look.
Then there are those days
You find it as if it were something that could be lost.
Or mistake it for something else.
And still others when love slips through your fingers
Like falling caramel finding it’s inevitable way into your dish.
I vote for the unsustainable kind of love that leaves you More …
A man boarded an airplane and took his seat. As he settled in he glanced up and saw the most beautiful woman boarding the plane. He soon realized that she was heading straight towards his seat. As fate would have it, she took the seat right beside his.
Eager to strike up a conversation, he blurted out, “Business trip or pleasure?” She turned, smiled and said., “Business, I’m going to the Annual Nymphomaniacs of America Convention in Chicago.”
He swallowed hard. Here was the most gorgeous woman he had ever seen sitting next to him and she was going to a meeting for nymphomaniacs!
Struggling to maintain his composure, he calmly asked, “What’s your business role at the convention?” More …
I can’t say enough about how much I enjoyed The Kings Speech. The part that got me standing up in the theater was when Lionel, the speech therapist admits he had no credentials and no degrees. He dares to treat the King of England for his disabling speech impediment based solely upon the one thing he knew would ‘cure’ him. They had to become intimate friends.
In most therapeutic models, becoming intimate fiends with clients is taboo because it’s considered a hindrance to healing, if not illegal in clinical situations. More …
What can chakras tell you about your sex life? Well, the truth is you’ll live just fine, and you can have great sex even if you’ve never heard of a chakra. However, when you find out that that low energy, lack of desire and low libido has a lot to do with sluggish chakras, the subject gets a lot more interesting.
It gets even more interesting More …
Even though I don’t really think dirty talk is ‘dirty’ at all, I must admit I like both giving and getting it. I like the prelude, the spoken and unspoken words, the whole courtship of erotic conversation. It’s fascinating how changing just a few words, and the tone of your voice can turn luke warm ho hum sex into peel me off the moon kind of sex.
Which of these words would melt you to the ground? While the Vanilla lines may work just fine, try the Hot ones once in a while to put some fire to your heart, and maybe a few other places too.*
Are You Vanilla or Hot? More …
I think maybe we all want sex that makes us shiver and sweat all over, but we also want sex that makes us smile, and melt into each others bodies all night. Do we have to choose between hot sex or intimate sex? While some talking is needed to have either how sex or cozy sex, it’s good to know when to talk and when to stop.
Here’s one of my favorite ways to hit the sweet spot. More …
In an article by Brenda Wilson called Sex Without Intimacy: No Dating, No Relationships the author wonders how the trend of ‘hooking up’ for sex effects our meeting and mating rituals: Hooking up started before the Internet and social networks, but the technology is extending the lifestyle way beyond the campus. Deborah Roffman says no one is offering this generation guidance on how to manage what is essentially a new stage in life.
The dilemma for this generation is how to learn about intimacy, she says: “How am I going to have a series of relationships that are going to be healthy for me and others, and going to prepare me for settling down with one person?”
I believe you can develop the qualities you need for long-term, committed relationships, while ‘hooking up’ or what I call free dancing. You can be honest about your intentions; you can practice care, respect and generosity, even and especially when sex is involved.
You can be honest about your intentions; you can practice care, respect and generosity even, and especially when sex is involved. More …