White Tigress Taoist Feminine Secrets
Every woman has a rich source of vibrant libido and feminine energy that yearns to flower into it’s full potential. Tapping into your feminine spring is about reclaiming your sexual vitality at any age.
Yet how do we find the time and energy to enjoy the pleasures of sex? It’s easy to get so caught up in our Superwoman roles juggling schedules, jobs, kids or relationships that we put our sex life on the back shelf marked ‘Later.’ The trouble is, when we do find the time to make love, we may not have as much energy as we would like.
Thanks to ancient Taoists, who have long recognized sexuality as vital to our health, there are natural ways to energize your sex life. First, you should entertain empowering sexual thoughts and treat your orgasms as the treasures they are.
Every orgasm releases a cocktail of marvelous hormones into your bloodstream. Your orgasms are your bodies’ life’s fuel; they make your skin glow, your hair shine and they fill your body with energy. Each and every rumble and quake is enough to put a curl on your lips and the really strong ones will bend your toes as well.
Second, you should improve your health. A tired body cannot afford to replenish itself through orgiastic pleasure. This takes us to the main reason why women experience a decline of sexual vibrancy during peri menopause, menopause and beyond. According to Chinese medicine, our kidneys, where we store our sexual energy, become exhausted.
Ancient Chinese courtesans, who were known for their youthfulness and sexual prowess, practiced several natural secrets to fortify their kidneys. They ate nourishing food high in minerals and low in fats, drank alcohol in moderation, and got plenty of exercise and rest. What most women don’t know however is they also knew that women need a rich source of male, ‘yang’ energy to keep their Feminine Spring flowing strong. This is the secret to restoring our natural hormones.
Absorbing Male Energy
You absorb male energy whenever you cultivate healthy, interesting and fun relationships with men. This includes all your friendships with associates, brothers, fathers and lovers. The greater the harmony you create with each of the men in your life, the more energy you have to store in your treasure chest. To reclaim your sexual vitality, focus on repairing and uplifting your relationships with men – no matter what your sexual preferences may be. While our friendships with other women are every bit as crucial for our health and happiness, we focus here on male relations because it is often where we experience a tremendous loss of vitality.
Increasing Feminine Vibrancy
The next ‘secret’ to replenishing your vibrancy is actually obvious, but we overlook it all the time. The most concentrated source of energy comes from enjoying intense sexual intimacy. The quickest way to increase your feminine vitality is to express your passion and welcome opportunities for sexual pleasure.
We know that most men (unless they are stressed or anxious) need and enjoy sexual release. If you want to enhance your lover’s sexual potency, so the quality of his male energy is at its best, you should focus on genuinely appreciating his sexuality, especially his genitals. You don’t need to have sex just because he wants to, but you do need to appreciate him where it matters most.
Clarifying Love and Sex
Besides the physical decline of our kidneys, what drains our vitality most is emotional confusion around sex and love. It is said there are three kinds of love: Young Love, Middle Love and Mature Love.
With Young Love, our desire surges through us in waves of seemingly boundless energy. It sure feels fantastic to be filled with sexy hot passion, but this kind of love has a short life span, and eventually loses its luster.
Middle Love happens when we bond in relationships to create affection and security. While it brings the intimate comforts we like, when we get too cozy inside our routines, our sexual passion slips away. With Middle Love, we may love our partner dearly, but often have a hard time expressing it sexually. This is when we feel our vitality droop; we start to complain and hope for some of that fiery Young Love to stir things up.
Then there’s Mature Love. Not just for older, settled folks, Mature Love blossoms when we feel a yearning to give to the world. It includes our creativity as well as our maternal love for children and nature. There are times our Mature Love reaches a point where it’s just as urgent as the masculine need for pure sexual release, and likewise, when we can’t find ways to give this love, we suffer.
If you rely too heavily on any one kind of love, and try to make it exclusive, your sexual vitality will rapidly decline. This is when it pays to get good at multitasking, only instead of using your ability to do a dozen of things at once, use your feminine intelligence to make sure you have all three kinds of love in your life.
You need Young Love, with those spontaneous bursts of sexy passion every bit as much as you need the warm intimacy of Middle Love and the expansive power of Mature Love. Though it may not always be easy to have all three at once, if one kind of love is missing you should do everything you can to bring it in. Never underestimate the strength of your feminine energy, for just as women can enjoy multiple orgasms, you are designed to have multiple sources of passion, playfulness and pleasure throughout every cycle of your life.
To enjoy your Feminine Spring, and reclaim your sexual vitality, imagine a wild field of bursting flowers. Different colors, fragrances, shapes and sizes— every one utterly unique in its beauty. Though flowers appear fragile, and they go through seasons like we do, as their seeds are lifted into new places, it’s amazing how they find a way to bloom again and again.
In Beauty, Amara
(c)Copyright Amara Charles 2011 Share Only with permission of author.