It’s easy to get a precious treasure
But hard to find a man with a heart.

from  a Chinese Erotic Love Poem

The heart, the mind, the body. These are not separate things. Thus it is not possible to find a man without heart.But you will find many whose hearts are hidden.

The real ‘job’ of a woman (if we must have jobs) is to inspire men to feel their hearts.

When we resist sharing the beauty of our inherent feminine nature, no man will bother to feel his heart, for his heart lives in the bosom of feminine beauty.

To put it another way, if we hide our hearts, so will they.

So if you are wondering how to find a man with heart, offer yours. The surest way to inspire a man to feel his heart opening is to offer him your clothing, as you let it slip from your body. For you see, a man cannot help but feel his heart, and his reverence for you, when you offer yourself freely.

In beauty, Amara

Sex and Intimacy expert Amara Charles’ new book The Sexual Practices of Quodoushka is available for pre-order on Amazon. To find out about sexuality workshops for singles and couples please go to our workshop page.

Amara Charles is a highly acclaimed sex and intimacy expert who has taught workshops internationally since 1989, helping men and women reconnect with their passion, reclaim their sexual energy and deepen their appreciation for life. Charles is the author of several books, including The Sexual Practices of Quodoushka. Published by Inner Traditions/Bear & CO., it will be available in wide release in August 2011. Charles has been a guest on BBC, ABC radio, and HBO and has spoken at numerous national and international conferences where she gives presentations and leads conversations about sex and intimacy for various groups, corporate clients and universities.