How To Spot a Real Woman
A real woman is easy to spot. She stands out like a tall flower raising above a field of poppies- not because she’s trying – quite the opposite- she draws your eyes towards her because there is something mysteriously different about the way she moves through the world. True, they are rare, but once you know what to look for, a real woman is impossible to miss.
How do you spot her? Ah, to get close enough to taste her secrets, you must develop senses that can see her signals. Her gestures are alluring, but not in the way you may think. Her beauty is subtle. It is not a surface quality that fades with age nor is her elegance dependent on artifice to maintain. A real woman is natural- she is nature. This is what makes her shine with an unmistakable magnetic glow.
Many women however have forgotten how to replenish their feminine qualities and have lost have lost touch with the sources of their beauty. Their natural energy becomes dulled like a dry stone through years of doubting their instincts and intuitions. But what most erodes enduring feminine beauty is when women hold back the full expression of their lush sexual energy.
When a woman goes too long without enjoying herself sexually, tucking away her need for orgasmic pleasure under all her excuses, her passion for life withers away. She becomes too tense, too controlling, and too demanding in petty ways. She starts to look and feel tired. When a woman cannot find a way to express herself sexually, negative emotions collect inside dimming the allure of her natural feminine beauty.
A real woman on the other hand, knows how precious her sexuality is and she understands that her feminine vitality is directly connected to her ability to express her erotic nature with wisdom and care.
Although many women will say they really enjoy sex, most will also admit they are frequently disappointed. When a woman is frustrated because she has not found a way to be sexual in the way she likes, she may try to convince herself that sex is no longer all that important. She may attempt to replace what is missing by filling her self up with other things- with food, houses, children or a busy life. She may even go through the motions of having sex, yet her heart is lost. All this activity never quite replaces what she really needs.
How do YOU spot a real woman?
End of Part Two. Part Three coming next week.
Surya ~ The Love Goddess says:
January 24, 2011
Beautifully said! I have spotted the woman in you goddess! Thank u for sharing