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Nourishing Arts of Sexual PleasureThanks for stopping by. If you’re looking for the best spiritually sexy stories, articles and Intimacy Retreats, you’ve found the site. My book ‘The Sexual Practices of Quodoushka’ hit #1 on Amazon and you can watch A Natural Language for Sex from Chapter 6 by opting in above. Order a copy now and I’ll send you an autographed copy. Plus, you can receive several exclusive gifts only available HERE.

“This book is a treasure trove of wisdom and sexuality practices from beginner to advanced.” — Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D.  Author of Dr. Sprinkle’s Spectacular Sex

10 Questions for a Sexier 2017

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If you’re like me, I’m hitting the refresh button for a year of greater happiness, health, humor, hope, and harmony. And way more horniness. I’m going all out to get closer, to plant good seeds and to enjoy the good things I’ve earned. I’m daring myself to be more vulnerable, less self- consumed and to speak the unspeakable when I need to.  I’m collecting awesome allies, appreciating my enemies and  expanding my capacity for bliss. As if this were my last year here, I am living to give what only I came here to give. And I invite you to join me without waiting to be perfect to start.

I offer this little ceremony you can use with a friend or lover to cozy and cuddle up; to start your year right with a bit of audaciously kind conversation. Just light a fire, take a walk or email a friend across the ocean. Make an extra move to get close with someone who might resist your nudges at first.  Go ahead, be recklessly ever so slightly over the top real with the way you answer these questions.  Hint: enjoy!

How can I show my love in ways that really work for you?

Chakra couple

What friendships can I help you grow?


Can you describe what kind of erotic experiences you’d  like more of ?



What really made you laugh this year and how can we have more of that? More …

First Quodoushka in Prague March 1- 5 2017

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QUODOUSHKA 1 Spiritual Sexuality for Singles and Couples with Amara Charles & Åsa Kullberg

A shamanic approach to sacred sexuality for your health and well-being

March 1-5 2017, Czech Republic

To Register Please Contact: seminare@maitrea.cz More …

The Magic Horse ~ with comments by Amara

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To have the courage to accept a quality which one does not like in oneself, and which one has chosen to repress for many years, is an act of great courage. But if one does not accept the quality, then it functions behind one’s back. Marie – Louise Von Franz

The Magic Horse

There once was a king (OBAMA- THE OLD KING IN DECLINE ) who had a beautiful daughter. (USA- THE NATION IN DARK FEMININE – STUCK IN STATUS QUO, TOO PASSIVE, TOO POLITE) When he was old enough to get married, he invented a very clever riddle. He fed a flea so long it became as fat as a camel. (USA – OUT OF BALANCE WITH GREED) Then he killed it, took the skin and showed it everywhere, and said whoever recognized what animal it came from should have his daughter. (THE OLD KING SHOWS THE SKIN – THE SURFACE).

Naturally, no one guessed it was a flea. But one day an ugly beggar (TRUMP THE NEW KING) came and he wanted to solve the riddle. They wouldn’t let him into the castle, but the beggar insisted he had the right to enter. As soon as the old king (OBAMA) showed him the skin, the beggar says, ‘But naturally, it’s the skin of a flea.’ The king was furious but had to give his daughter to this horrible man. (TRUMP- SEES UNDER THE SKIN, SEES THROUGH THE KING’S FLAWS. OBAMA THE OLD KING SUBMITS TO THE WILL OF PEOPLE.) More …

Shakti Queen Women’s Retreat ~ Santa Fe

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The Magic Horse ~ the battle of the dark feminine and the dark king

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There once was a king who had a beautiful daughter. When he was old enough to get married, he invented a very clever riddle. He fed a flea so long it became as fat as a camel. Then he killed it, took the skin and showed it everywhere, and said whoever recognized what animal it came from should have his daughter.

Naturally, no one guessed it was a flea. But one day an ugly beggar came and he wanted to solve the riddle. They wouldn’t let him into the castle, but the beggar insisted he had the right to enter. As soon as the old king showed him the skin, the beggar says, ‘But naturally, it’s the skin of a flea.’ The king was furious but had to give his daughter to this horrible man.

The beggar turned out to be a div, a destructive ogre who eats people. He took the princess, who was in great despair. She went to the stable and cried on the neck of her favorite little horse. The horse said it would help; she must take it with her, along with a mirror, a comb, some salt, and a carnation. More …

How We Like To Be Loved

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What would happen if you allowed the men in your life to love every bit of you? Can you imagine having men who wish to provide whatever they can; able to take you into realms of pleasure that thrills you to the bone? Can you picture the kind of guy who’s turned on every time he makes just the right move at just the right time?

Here’s what I’ve noticed about certain men; when given the right kind of clues, they’re absolutely eager to delight us.

But why do men seldom succeed as much as they could? Why do they frequently fall short, leaving things unsaid and untouched? And why do they so often seem clueless, asking us what we want?

In my experience, training a man to catch our signals of desire is a matter of learning how to inspire him rather than asking for or demanding what we want. Yes, we can ask, and sometimes even demand that he steps up or slows down. But there are better ways to inspire men to love us the way we’d like to be loved.

First, keep in mind what inspires men most, especially during sex: More …

Aloha Quodoushka 1 & 2 in Hawaii this Fall!

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Imagine experiencing spiritual sexuality in the sensual paradise of Kauai with it’s warm tropical evenings filled with the aroma of plumeria, pristine white-sand beaches, and sparkling waterfalls. Thus begins your Quodoushka journey to completely nourish your body, mind, and soul. With your senses open and alive, luxuriate on the “Garden Isle”of Kauai, the greenest and most luscious of all the Hawaiian Islands. Cruise with new friends through the markets, take a hike along the famous Na Pali coast or relax by the ocean to enjoy the glorious Hawaiian sunshine.



Registration is OPEN for Quodoushka 1 and 2

Q1 October 27 – 31

Q2 November 4 – 8

Registration and Information CLICK HERE!

Aloha Quodoushka FLYER

Kauai Healing Retreat with Master Angela Yan

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Experience the Tranquility & Supreme Aloha Beauty of Kauai

Experience the Tranquility & Supreme Aloha Beauty of Kauai

We hope you will join us for a special women’s healing retreat on the Garden Isle of Kauai, Hawaii this October. At this retreat you will have an extraordinary and rare opportunity to work with Qigong Master Angela Yan. Angela is a world-renowned Buddhist energy healer and we are THRILLED she accepted our invitation. Read on to discover more about Angela and her amazing healing work.

‘A natural life is 120 years. This should be common. Yet, why do people die
early? They do not follow the law. They do not know how to harmonize their
natural self. You must find where your personality comes from in order to
purify and cleanse. Knowing who you are and where you come from helps
you find and follow the right path. To heal, you must understand yourself
more, regardless of your path or religion, in order to reach enlightenment.’ 

- Angela Yan

October 13 – 20

Kauai, Hawaii

Shakti Queen Healing Retreat FLYER

Register Today here!

**Space Limited**

The Outer Limits of Intimacy

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People who are well nourished and greatly inspired by their relationships live at the outer limits of intimacy. They not only dream of but deeply crave what is beyond easy grasp. They know deep fulfillment comes from extending and stretching the borders of what is already known. If you want the most from your relations you must realize it lives outside your comfort zones.

Deep love exists on the fringes of plain view. It thrives beyond what is already known and being done. A great relationship, and real intimacy requires a new approach. Anytime you don’t know what to do differently, your answer is to hunt for another approach. More …

A Soft Burn of Yearning Love

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Why I can’t stop offering sacred sexuality

I like inviting the soft burn of yearning love to come out from hiding. Even the most bruised and tender spirits, the ones who’ve just about given up, the ones who feel tired of losing, or who don’t even know they’re caged in pain; these are the ones I love lifting.  Actually, it’s we who do the lifting. It happens every time.

I like when we become healers because it’s safe to shine. I like when we get to the place where sex is no longer about me and what I want, or what I can get. I like when our sexuality stays fragile, and private and clear. I love when there is no difference between my pleasure and your pleasure. I love the moments when giving is so thrilling, so sweet and so divine, nobody is left out.

Regular sex, the kind you have behind closed doors, is still my favorite kind of sex. Ah, but there’s something very different when we get together to explore our sacred sexuality. And it isn’t what you may think. More …

I Got Published in Natural Awakenings Mag Santa Fe

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Natural Awakenings published my latest article: Crazy Habits of Dharma Love.

Thank You!

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Are you living a Dharma Relationship?

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You know you are living in Dharma Relationship if you:

Can find something to smile about even in the most disastrous situations, forget about things that are simply none of your business and get on with things that are. You can get angry, sad, mad and even rage – but it blows over fast, and you keep finding that darkness inside and chopping it into little pieces. You make love as a solace, a source of sublime deliverance. You strive to know the other as best you can, yet take pleasure in never quite making it. You constantly know life is a rather brief adventure, and that it matters who you serve; your self or all humanity.

Crazy Habits of Dharma Love

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Perhaps you’ve noticed how having major secrets or lying in your intimate relationships keeps you hooked in a karmic-merry-go-round that isn’t very merry. It’s no fun getting caught in loops where nothing seems to change, old irritations insist on rearing up and you can’t help adding insult to injury. Such is the way of a Karmic Relationship.

The only way to shed the weight of karma and step on a path to creating a Dharma Relationship is start seeing transgressions for what they are. And here’s the kicker: whether you’ve made or have been the target of a transgression (as in being the cheater or being cheated on), it doesn’t matter. Either one keeps you dragging through karma going round and round.

Dharma Relationships are radically different, and the habits you start to ingrain are a lot more fun. It’s not that you suddenly escape conflict, get rid of all irritation or that you have the best sex ever right away.  You do however start to play by rules that bring you into a different world.

In karmic relationships you get to More …

Oh My, What A Trip

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The benches where the monks will sit

Tucked away in the high mountain village of Wutai Shan China we return to the ancient Tibetan Temple where we stay for our retreat.

We wake at 3:30 am to cross the dark and cold stone courtyard to get our blankets. Brrr! I can’t wait Where we bowto sit with the monks and chant with them for the morning ceremony. But first we make 108 bows. You put your hands on the two mits and then whoosh! – until you are lying straight on this board. It gets a little easier every day, and it sure warms you up for sitting and chanting. I remind my self we’re only doing this for a few weeks. They do it every day. More …

Pearls and Pitfalls of Online Dating

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In case you missed part one: Virtues and Vices of Online Dating

I’ve been getting even more comments from my last newsletter; tales of awful dates and stories from those who, while they first thought nothing spiritual could come of this, now bless the day internet dating was born.

This was written by a man who said I could share his online ad. I love it. It worked for him.
I am a hot zesty 44 year old awesome bundle of love looking for a yummy juicy sexy woman that can’t wait to dive into my pants and discover the fullness of life. I am a man that has the capacity to be both strong and vulnerable, passionate and intimate as well as genuine and nurturing. I enjoy creating art, dancing tango, traveling the world, and reading poetry as much as I enjoy developing a successful business, curling up by a fire, and holding hands while watching a movie.

I give myself permission to cry, to not have the answers and to make mistakes. I am a man that celebrates both his mortal and divine masculine and I am in search of my twin soul-flame consort that embodies the beautiful mystery of the awakened divine feminine with an open heart, elegance and grace.

In the name of love I invite you to trust spirit, walk the razors edge and jump off cliffs into the unknown with me.

What do you think ladies? Guys?

If you’ve ever been curious about how to put your self out into cyberland in a good way, or you have some experience in the matter, we’d like to learn more. After reading these examples, I would love to know what you think makes a great ad or what turns you off? Would you respond to any of these, and if so, why? More …

A Fun interview In Prague

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A Fun interview In Prague with Sex Cafe

I’d love to come back to Prague (and I think I will) ! We shall see.

Watch the Fabulous Shakti Queens of Texas

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Thank You so much ladies for opening your hearts and sharing in such an honest and passionate way!

Our Next Texas Shakti Queen Women’s Empowerment Retreat is August 11-14 2016
Our Shakti Queen Texas Graduates have first dibs on spaces available

Alpha Women Say Soft is Better

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I know what you might think. Yes, while it’s true being as hard as rock can lead to hours of hot, driven, pounding love, there is a softer world filled with off-the-chart sensations – for both men and woman. The truth is, soft is where the sensation is. When you’re soft, relaxed and open you can feel more. And the softer the power, the bigger the bliss.

For Him

Of course, there are physiological (and highly pleasurable) reasons for staying hard. Most, but by no means all! ejaculations happen at the apex of a sturdy rod. While this often feels very very good, until you develop the ability to relax and open during epic surges of energy, both you and your partner will lose a great deal of what could be harnessed to feel more healthy, happy and alive. More …

Virtues and Vices of Online Dating

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This series is dedicated to erotically intelligent women and men who are increasing their magnetic presence to attract higher levels of engagement.

Have you ever considered writing an online ad?

It can be a fascinating way to increase your magnetic presence to seek, find and deepen your beloved relationships. I know quite a few switched on seekers who have found some rather amazing people online and I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t.  While online rules of engagement may change the way we meet, the laws of attraction remain. The question is, how can we refine our approach to seeking and finding a beloved, online or otherwise and turn it into a spiritual adventure? More …

Jennifer Shares about Quodoushka on Kauai

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Quodoushka 1 & 2 Kauai November 4-7  11-17

Q1&2 Flyer registration HAWAII 2015

Free Quodoushka Intro Sunday November 

7pm on Kauai. Please contact Jennifer Easterly <roseskybird@icloud.com>

Two Faces of Beauty

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mirror-effect-a-1You’d think the choice between beauty and something unattractive would be simple – just nudge closer to what feels nice and avoid what you don’t like.

But have you ever noticed how right behind what attracts you most comes something that does not? It’s as if beauty has a secret twin that pulls you closer to what you want, and then, once you’re enchanted, shows you the other side. Don’t think of it as beauty = good, ugly = bad; really, because what is unattractive to you helps you look past surface beauty and opens you to being nourished by deep beauty.

It’s not only that you can’t have one without the other, both are perceptions that we react to all the time. Sometimes we avoid beauty, sometimes we melt into it. Sometimes we cringe away from something ugly, sometimes we can’t take our eyes off it. Beauty and the unattractive are inseparable, and the more you see both sides as one,  the less you’ll be baffled or blindsided when the other face appears. More …

Chasing Your Shadow

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sherrys shadowDedicated To my Friend, Sherry Folb who helped me birth my first book, Sexual Agreements.

May you rest. And continue your journey in peace.


Me and My Shadow Drawing by Sherry Folb

 Let’s imagine someone has a growling shadow lurking within, which when poked, likes to start aggressive arguments and behavior. This person will project their shadow through quarrels and disruptive actions, and if it the shadow gets its way, he or she will find some clever way out – either by leaving or finding the perfect distraction – anything to avoid a good look within. More …

Amara Charles Interview with Chatter Box TV ~ Part Two Crickette

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Crickette Gill of ChatterBox TV – she’s irreverent, she’s funny – and she’s a cat woman (very intelligent)  We chat about Erotic Intelligence, jade eggs, what happens in Shakti Queen, vaginal restoration, jade stems, gazing at the dragon and how to give your pussy a PHD… (as if she doesn’t already have a master’s degree…)

I thought our last interview was good ~ this one’s great. Crickette is so funny and so easy to talk with! Her questions turn me on! We had such a blast in my backyard and having tea…I  only wish we had camera rolling afterwards because that’s when the camera man gave his two cents, starting with something like, “well, I haven’t gotten too many complaints…

Yes, I said laughing, still, if you’re really intelligent, you’ll keep asking me questions. (which he did). So I asked if he wanted to hear my shortest poem, The Mark of Intelligence, (which he did).

The Mark of Intelligence

is the way

you open your legs.


Don’t you think?


Amara’s latest interview on Chatter Box with Crickette

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Maybe the best interview I’ve done to date! Crickette is really funny, bright and bold… we had a a great time in my home talking about Quodoushka and educated pussys.

She may not know it yet but Crickette is coming to a Q,.


Part One… Part Two is coming soon.


In beauty Amara

Sexual Agreements ~ Interview with Amara Charles & Max Van Prague TV

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Amara Charles  Interview with Max Van Prague – Opening Relationships

Because our needs and our desires are constantly changing, our sexual agreements must become living entities. It’s not about making contracts that confine you, It’s not about being, or expecting perfection from your partner.

Making conscious sexual agreements requires radical honesty, not only about what you want, agreements are about owning and taking responsibility for our mistakes.